Bruce
Moving Into My Own Neighborhood Part 2: Wait a
Minute, Who is My Neighbor?
This whole series of articles was prompted because I
was reading the Gospel of John. I was struck by the way John 1 talks about how
Jesus moved into our neighborhood. It came alive because I started wondering
what it would look like in my neighborhood.
As I continue reading, I’m learning something else
about my neighborhood. In John 5, Jesus was walking into Jerusalem. He sees a
man sitting by a pool waiting for the waters to stir so he can climb in and be
healed. Jesus had an encounter with him and ultimately heals him.
Sometimes for Jesus neighborhood happened to be
where he was at the moment; he had a way of being present to the people he was
with.
Earlier this week I had to drive to Klamath Falls.
About 70 miles from Klamath I decided to take a break and stop at a rest stop.
It was about 4 in the afternoon on a warm day, and there was a man in the
restroom washing his sunburned head, face and neck with water from one of the sinks.
His clothes were ragged and there was a large, well-worn backpack leaning on
the wall next to him.
We started talking, and I discovered he was from
Sacramento. He had gone to Seattle for a job. The job had fallen through. He
had expended all his resources in the move, so he was headed back to Sacramento
on foot. His plan was to walk into Klamath that night and find a shelter where
he could sleep and get a meal. I pointed out that Klamath was still 70 miles
away and even at a brisk walk it would take him a couple of days to get there.
He leaned against the wall in dismay and thought for
a moment. He looked up at me and asked if I could give him a ride to Klamath.
I was on my way to meet with the church board at
Klamath Falls, and I could think of a fistful of reasons I didn’t have time, but
the story of the Good Samaritan came to mind and I saw my face on the priest
who passed the wounded man. I knew I had to answer the question, “Who is my
neighbor?”
As we drove away from the rest area I said to him, “I
don’t even know your name.”
He stuck out his hand and said, “my name is Bruce.”
I laughed and took his hand, “my name is Bruce.”
On our drive to Klamath he told me how he entered
the foster care system when he was 4 years old. He told me he avoided his family
because he didn’t need to be reminded that he was worthless. He told me he
didn’t have a high school diploma. He told me he was 47 and still didn’t know
what he wanted to do with his life.
Maybe it was because I heard the story from someone
with my name, but I couldn’t help seeing myself in his seat. The only
difference between him and me is that I had parents who stayed together and
stayed with me. I had a church family who thought I was important enough to
invest themselves in, and I have friends who walk with me through life. None of
the blessings in my life are about me; they are present because the people God
put in my life chose to reflect him to me.
Bruce was a gift to me at that moment and I wanted
to be a gift to him.
When we got to Klamath, we had dinner at Subway. He
ate half of his foot-long sandwich, wrapped up the other half and stowed it in
a pocket of his backpack—he didn’t know where his next meal would come from.
After dinner I took him to the Amtrak station. I
gave him the $40 dollars I had and said, “I don’t know if that will get you to
Sacramento, but it should get you somewhere in California.”
I left him sitting at the station waiting for the
evening train.
The encounter was a gift to us both. He got a
sandwich and a train ticket out of our meeting. I learned that even though he
lives in California and I live in Portland we’re neighbors. And I learned I
serve a God who managed to intersect our neighborhoods at an isolated rest stop
far from both of our homes.
Neighbors huh? God certainly does move in mysterious ways! Your post resonated with me for a couple of reasons. First was your trip to Klamath Falls. I was born there and raised a few miles north. Beautiful country. I know exactly the rest area you talk about. The second reason is your encounter with Bruce. Mine was with Kenny and very similar to yours. I was heading to Boise for my very dear cousins memorial service. As I got on I 84 just off 205 I passed a hitch hiker. I heard in an almost audible voice, "you are picking a hitch hiker up today." Hum, I don't do that. Three hundred miles later at a rest area, Kenny who was sitting at a picnic table as I passed by asked, "would you give a fella a ride?" Many of the same life things as Bruce. Broken marriage, lost job, home sick for Kentucky and trying to get back there. No food, money. He got both plus a ride a few more miles down the Kentucky turnpike. I was able to ask him about his relationship with Jesus and he acknowledged he knew of but really should seek a deeper walk with Him. I have often thought about and prayed for Kenny in the years since. I believe he and I are neighbors and will talk across the fence again someday!
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